Books by Trey Malicoat, M.S.

Find yourself in the conversation.

Sometimes a book gives you words for something you’ve felt for years. Sometimes it asks the question you’ve been avoiding. My books invite you to look at how you love, how you lead, and how you want to live.

A more intentional way to live and love

The 11 Vows Relationship Series

You don’t have to read these in order. Start with the part of your life asking for your attention: closeness, partnership, personal responsibility, or what comes next.

The 11 Vows of Intimacy: The Sacred Path to Lasting Love by Trey Malicoat, M.S., blue square cover

Combined book + workbook · 429 pages

The 11 Vows of Intimacy

For reading and reflecting together

The Sacred Path to Lasting Love brings the relationship book and guided workbook together in one volume.

  • Explore the vows together at your own pace.
  • Use guided reflection to deepen your conversations.
  • Keep the reading and your workbook practice in one place.
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The 11 Vows of Intimacy by Trey Malicoat, M.S.

The 11 Vows of

Intimacy

For a deeper connection

When you want more than being together. You want to feel known.

  • Reflect on what lasting love asks of you.
  • Make space for vulnerability and honest connection.
  • Consider the commitments you bring to intimacy.
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The 11 Vows of Intimacy Workbook by Trey Malicoat, M.S.

Companion workbook

Intimacy Workbook

For putting reflection into practice

When you’re ready to spend time with the questions, not just read past them.

  • Deepen your reflection alongside The 11 Vows of Intimacy.
  • Give your insights a place on the page.
  • Return to the commitments you want to practice.
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The 11 Vows of Intentional Partnership by Trey Malicoat, M.S.

The 11 Vows of

Intentional Partnership

For love through real life

When everyday demands have started to crowd out the relationship.

  • Notice where connection needs tending.
  • Balance your own needs with your partnership.
  • Bring intention back to the life you share.
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The 11 Vows of Relational Responsibility by Trey Malicoat, M.S.

The 11 Vows of

Relational Responsibility

For love without losing yourself

When you want to care deeply without abandoning yourself.

  • Consider your impact on the people you love.
  • Explore the balance between boundaries and connection.
  • Take responsibility without making yourself disappear.
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The 11 Vows of Secure Intimacy by Trey Malicoat, M.S.

The 11 Vows of

Secure Intimacy

For closeness that feels safer

When part of you wants connection and another part wants to pull away.

  • Recognize how fear and shame can shape closeness.
  • Reflect on the urge to withdraw or numb out.
  • Explore a more compassionate relationship with vulnerability.
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The 11 Vows of Graceful Aging by Trey Malicoat, M.S.

The 11 Vows of

Graceful Aging

For your next chapter

When you want growing older to mean more than getting older.

  • Reflect on what dignity means to you now.
  • Make room for desire and meaningful connection.
  • Approach change with greater intention.
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The 11 Vows of Adulthood by Trey Malicoat, M.S.

The 11 Vows of

Adulthood

For a life that feels like yours

When you’re doing what’s expected but wondering what it’s all for.

  • Explore who you are beyond other people’s expectations.
  • Reconnect with purpose in a culture of burnout.
  • Think about the community you want to build.
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A psychological novel

The Queen Has No Friends

A novel of power, betrayal, restraint, and the wars we build around our wounds.

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The Queen Has No Friends by Trey Malicoat, M.S. The cover shows a crown of barbed wire beside a fallen red hibiscus.
THE QUEEN HAS NO FRIENDSRestoration Press
Power. Betrayal. Restraint.Enter the story

Why read the novel?

See power, trust, and your own choices more clearly.

Through a story of a fractured partnership, explore the difference between justice and revenge, notice how fear shapes a workplace, and consider what it takes to choose restraint when you have the power to retaliate.

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Inside the novel

What happens when trust becomes a contest for control?

A red hibiscus grows through an open crown made of wire.

He helped build the kingdom.
Then he was asked to disappear.

A seasoned strategist joins a young founder to build something larger than either could create alone. But as the company grows, the systems designed to strengthen it begin to threaten the person who needs to remain at its center.

When the partnership fractures, the damage reaches far beyond two people. Employees learn to watch the emotional weather. Family members become protectors. Loyalty begins to look like silence.

Outside the kingdom, the man who has been removed knows its strengths, its secrets, and its fragile places. He discovers how much power he could use. And how deliberately he must choose what to do with it.

The Queen Has No Friends explores the seductive line between justice and revenge, and the cost of becoming someone you no longer recognize in order to win.

“The throne does not create power. It reveals what a person is willing to sacrifice in order to remain seated.”

From The Queen Has No Friends

A cautionary tale for a business in transition

Recognize the human pattern before it becomes the business problem.

The systems meant to strengthen this company threaten the founder’s sense of control. Employees become cautious. A fractured partnership becomes a test of how power will be used. The novel makes room to examine these pressures before they shape your own decisions.

As your business introduces AI and automation, ask: Who may feel less needed? Where is authority confused with personal worth? Can people speak honestly about what is changing? What will keep human connection at the center of the new way of working?

The Cost of Standing Still carries these questions into a larger business transition: automation does the heavy lifting, while people find new purpose in connecting, creating, and collaborating.

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Read an excerpt

PROLOGUE

The Things I Didn’t Do

The opening of
The Queen Has No Friends

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I did not call her.

That sounds less significant than it was.

There were nights when her number sat three touches away from my thumb and every part of me wanted the relief of confrontation. I wanted to ask how a person could invite someone into a future, build beside him, call him partner, use his experience, rely on his judgment, accept his work, and then begin behaving as though the history between them were an administrative misunderstanding that could be corrected by an attorney.

I wanted answers.

More than that, I wanted recognition.

There is a primitive desperation in being misrepresented by someone who once knew you intimately. It is not enough to know your own truth. You want the person rewriting it to stop.

I did not call.

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I did not contact the staff and ask them what was happening inside the company. I did not begin telling employees that they had watched enough of the relationship to know which version of history was true. I did not make them choose between their paycheck and their memory.

I did not contact vendors and explain that the authority now being questioned had once been exercised openly in front of them.

I did not turn the man I loved, who still had to walk into that company every morning, into a source of intelligence simply because his access could have become mine.

I did not begin calling professional contacts and poisoning relationships that still belonged to the business.

I did not publish accusations.

I did not convert every concern I knew about into a complaint simply because scrutiny itself can become punishment.

There were many things I did not do.

She could not see any of them.

That became one of the strangest lessons of the separation.

From the outside, restraint and powerlessness can look identical.

Someone does not retaliate, and you assume he cannot.

Someone remains quiet, and you assume he has nothing left to say.

Someone respects a boundary, and you assume the boundary defeated him.

Someone does not recruit the people around you, and you assume those people were never available.

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Excerpt © 2026 Trey Malicoat, M.S. All rights reserved.

Meet the author

Trey Malicoat, M.S.

Trey Malicoat, M.S., brings nearly three decades of experience in trauma, crisis response, healthcare leadership, and education to his writing.

His books explore power, vulnerability, and the choices people make when trust breaks down.

He holds a Master of Science in Clinical Psychology.

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The Cost of Standing Still: Transformative Leadership for an Automated World brings the questions in this novel to your audience. Now booking 2027, with an optional accompanying Transformative Leadership Workshop.

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The novel

Enter the story. Consider the cost.

Discover The Queen Has No Friends. Bring its questions about fear, control, and the courage to adapt into your next leadership conversation.

Restoration Press · Denver, Colorado
First edition · Paperback ISBN 979-8-9941559-2-9

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