A business can answer every message and still leave people feeling that no one is there.
The confirmation arrives instantly. The reminder appears on time. The system knows your name, your purchase history, and the last thing you clicked. Then something goes wrong, something that matters to you, and there is no one willing or able to understand it.
We have the ability to design a much better experience. I want us to use it.
I am an advocate for automation. I want businesses to become more capable, more imaginative, and less exhausted by work that technology can carry. I also want us to be ambitious about what human beings get to become inside those businesses. We can free people to do work that asks more of their insight, creativity, and care.
To get there, we have to decide what deserves a human presence.
Keep a person responsible for the promise.
Technology can deliver information. Someone must remain accountable for what the business has promised and what happens when it falls short.
Imagine a customer whose service has failed twice. Another automated apology may arrive immediately. What they need now is someone who can hear the history, acknowledge the cost, and make a decision. Someone with enough authority to say, “I understand what happened. Here is what I can do.”
That person needs more than a friendly script. They need access to the facts, room to exercise judgment, and permission to resolve the problem. A human face attached to a powerless role will not repair the relationship.
Protect the conversations that carry emotional weight.
Some conversations change how a person understands their place in the world. A job is changing. A service they depend on is ending. An error has affected their family. A decision has left them feeling dismissed.
These moments deserve deliberate human attention. Use AI to help people arrive prepared, with the information and questions that make the conversation more useful. Then give them time to listen and the authority to respond. Technology can support the moment; a person can take responsibility for being there.
Ask a simple question: if this were happening to someone I love, where would I want a person to be present?
That question belongs in the design meeting.
Give judgment somewhere to live.
A rule can be consistent and still be wrong for a particular situation. People need a way to recognize an exception, question an output, and ask whether the business is overlooking something important.
We should welcome that capacity. The employee who notices an unusual pattern or asks an uncomfortable question may be protecting the business from a mistake it has made very efficiently.
Make escalation easy. Name who can stop a process. Give people a way to challenge an answer without being treated as an obstacle to progress.
Use the opening to create something better.
I do not want the human contribution reduced to cleaning up after machines. There is a much more interesting future available.
People can spend time learning what customers have never been asked. They can bring separate experiences together and invent a better service. They can mentor, negotiate, build community, and notice a possibility that does not fit the existing categories.
Imagine your people becoming known for the quality of their attention. For the questions they ask. For the ideas they bring back from conversations no dashboard could have initiated. I want businesses to make room for that kind of human originality and give it somewhere to lead.
Map the moments that matter.
Take one customer journey and examine it with your team. For each important moment, ask:
- What can technology complete reliably?
- What would make this moment confusing, sensitive, or consequential?
- How does someone reach a person who can help?
- Who owns the outcome when the usual process is insufficient?
- What new human attention could make this experience exceptional?
Then put those decisions into the roles, schedules, and authority of the people doing the work. Human connection needs an operating commitment.
This is the future I invite audiences to consider in The Cost of Standing Still. Let technology expand what the business can carry. Let that expansion give people greater room to contribute.
Build a business that can do more and still knows how to be there.

